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Someone is sending police or child protection to your door repeatedly

Your ex-partner or someone else is making repeated reports to police, child protection, or other agencies to trigger welfare checks at your home. Each individual report may seem 'concerned,' but the pattern is harassment — designed to exhaust you, intimidate you, and signal that they can bring the state to your door whenever they want.

What You Might Notice

  • Police or child protection visit you repeatedly based on reports from the same person

    A pattern of unsubstantiated reports from one source is harassment, not genuine concern.

  • The reports coincide with custody disputes or conflict

    Reports that arrive right before court dates or during disagreements are tactical, not protective.

  • Each report is unfounded but they keep coming

    The perpetrator knows the reports won't lead to action — the check itself is the weapon.

What You Can Do

  • Document every welfare check

    Record dates, times, what was reported, by whom, and the outcome. This pattern is your evidence.

  • Ask responding officers to note the pattern in their records

    Police can flag repeated unsubstantiated reports from the same complainant.

  • Seek legal advice about vexatious reporting

    Repeatedly making false or malicious reports may itself be an offence and can be raised in family court.

Important: This resource provides general information, not personal advice. Every situation is different. The actions suggested here may not be safe in your specific circumstances — particularly if the person causing harm could notice changes to your devices or accounts. Always consider your physical safety first.

If you need personalised support, contact 1800RESPECT (1800 737 732) or your local specialist domestic violence service. If you are in immediate danger, call 000.

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