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The person you're talking to may not be who they say they are

They might be using someone else's photos, lying about their age, inventing a life story, or pretending to be someone they're not. Online, identity is easy to fake — and some people build entire false personas to exploit others.

What You Might Notice

  • They won't video call or always have an excuse

    If someone avoids showing their face live, they may not look like their photos.

  • Their story has inconsistencies

    Details about their life, job, location, or past don't add up or change over time.

  • A reverse image search shows their photos belong to someone else

    This is a strong indicator of catfishing or scam activity.

  • They claim to be younger/older than they appear

    Especially concerning when an adult claims to be a teenager to contact minors.

What You Can Do

  • Do a reverse image search

    Right-click their profile photo and search Google Images, or use TinEye. If the photo appears elsewhere with a different name, it's likely stolen.

  • Video call before meeting in person

    A genuine person will be happy to video call. Persistent refusal is a red flag.

  • Talk to children about online identity deception

    Help young people understand that the person they're talking to online may not be who they claim.

    Frame this as 'people online can pretend to be anyone' rather than creating fear.

Important: This resource provides general information, not personal advice. Every situation is different. The actions suggested here may not be safe in your specific circumstances — particularly if the person causing harm could notice changes to your devices or accounts. Always consider your physical safety first.

If you need personalised support, contact 1800RESPECT (1800 737 732) or your local specialist domestic violence service. If you are in immediate danger, call 000.

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