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Using Snapchat because messages disappear

Snapchat messages disappear after viewing, which means there's less evidence. Someone may specifically choose Snapchat for conversations they don't want anyone else to see.

What You Might Notice

  • They only want to talk on Snapchat, not other platforms

    If someone insists on Snapchat specifically, consider why they want disappearing messages.

  • Your child has Snapstreaks with people they don't know in person

    Maintaining daily Snap streaks creates a sense of obligation and routine contact.

What You Can Do

  • Disable Snap Map or set to Ghost Mode

    Snap Map shows your real-time location to friends. Ghost Mode hides your location from everyone.

  • Parents: review your child's Snapchat friend list

    Look for contacts they don't know in person, especially adults.

    Have the conversation about why, not just what you're checking.

Important: This resource provides general information, not personal advice. Every situation is different. The actions suggested here may not be safe in your specific circumstances — particularly if the person causing harm could notice changes to your devices or accounts. Always consider your physical safety first.

If you need personalised support, contact 1800RESPECT (1800 737 732) or your local specialist domestic violence service. If you are in immediate danger, call 000.

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