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Controlling someone's access to communication technology is a form of coercive control. In Australia, this can be a criminal offence.

Restricting Your Access to Devices

Someone controls when and how you can use your phone, computer, or internet — imposing time limits, taking your devices, or restricting your access to technology.

What You Might Notice

  • The other person takes your phone or controls when you can use it

    Your access to devices is rationed or conditional.

  • Parental control software is installed on your devices (when you're an adult)

    Screen time limits or content restrictions are applied to your devices without your consent.

  • Internet access is turned off as punishment or control

    Wi-Fi passwords are changed, routers are unplugged, or data is restricted.

What You Can Do

  • Identify a safe communication method the other person can't control

    A device at work, a trusted friend's phone, or a library computer.

  • Remove parental control profiles from your devices

    These should not be on an adult's device without their consent.

    The other person may be notified.

  • Talk to a support service

    Call 1800RESPECT (1800 737 732) from a safe phone. Controlling access to technology is recognised as abuse.

Important: This resource provides general information, not personal advice. Every situation is different. The actions suggested here may not be safe in your specific circumstances — particularly if the person causing harm could notice changes to your devices or accounts. Always consider your physical safety first.

If you need personalised support, contact 1800RESPECT (1800 737 732) or your local specialist domestic violence service. If you are in immediate danger, call 000.

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