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Device sabotage can be a precursor to escalation. If your devices are being interfered with, tell someone you trust.

Sabotaging Your Devices

Someone deliberately damages, misconfigures, or interferes with your phone, computer, or other devices to make them unreliable, slow, or unusable.

What You Might Notice

  • Your devices keep malfunctioning in ways you can't explain

    Settings change, apps crash, or the device behaves erratically.

  • Problems only happen after the other person has had access

    The device works fine, then has issues after they've been near it.

  • Factory resets or data wipes you didn't authorise

    Your device has been wiped, losing your contacts, photos, and messages.

What You Can Do

  • Keep your device physically secure

    Don't leave it unattended when the other person could access it.

  • Back up your data regularly to a secure location

    Use cloud backup with an account only you control.

  • Document the pattern

    Keep a log of device issues with dates and whether the other person had access.

Important: This resource provides general information, not personal advice. Every situation is different. The actions suggested here may not be safe in your specific circumstances — particularly if the person causing harm could notice changes to your devices or accounts. Always consider your physical safety first.

If you need personalised support, contact 1800RESPECT (1800 737 732) or your local specialist domestic violence service. If you are in immediate danger, call 000.

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