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Watching Your Social Media

Someone closely monitors your social media accounts — tracking your posts, checking who you interact with, and using your activity to keep tabs on your life.

What You Might Notice

  • The other person comments on things you posted but didn't tell them about

    They reference photos, check-ins, or interactions they saw on your social media.

  • You notice unfamiliar accounts following you or viewing your stories

    They may have created fake accounts to watch you even after being blocked.

  • Friends mention the other person asking about your posts

    They may be monitoring through mutual contacts.

What You Can Do

  • Tighten your privacy settings on every platform

    Set profiles to private. Review who can see your posts, stories, friends list, and tagged photos.

  • Review and clean up your followers and connections

    Remove accounts you don't recognise or that seem suspicious.

  • Stop posting real-time locations or future plans

    Share holiday photos after you're home. Don't tag your current location.

  • Turn off tagging or require approval for tags

    This prevents friends from accidentally revealing your location through their posts.

Important: This resource provides general information, not personal advice. Every situation is different. The actions suggested here may not be safe in your specific circumstances — particularly if the person causing harm could notice changes to your devices or accounts. Always consider your physical safety first.

If you need personalised support, contact 1800RESPECT (1800 737 732) or your local specialist domestic violence service. If you are in immediate danger, call 000.

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