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Changing shared account settings may alert the other person. Plan which accounts to separate first and do them in a safe order.

Monitoring Through Shared Accounts

Someone uses accounts you share — like a family phone plan, streaming service, or cloud storage — to track your location, purchases, or activity.

What You Might Notice

  • The other person knows about purchases, locations, or content you haven't shared

    Shared accounts like Google, Apple Family, or phone plans often show activity to all members.

  • You discover location sharing is turned on with their account

    Check your phone's location sharing settings — someone may have enabled sharing without you realising.

  • Unfamiliar devices appear in your account's trusted devices list

    Someone else's phone or computer may be logged into your shared accounts.

What You Can Do

  • Review all location sharing settings on your devices

    On iPhone: Settings > Privacy > Location Services > Share My Location. On Android: Google Maps > your profile > Location sharing.

  • Gradually move to your own individual accounts

    Create new accounts with a fresh email address the other person doesn't know about.

    Do this from a device and network you're confident isn't monitored.

  • Check your phone plan

    Family plans often let the account holder see call logs, texts, and data usage for all lines.

    Moving to your own plan is ideal, but timing matters — plan it.

Important: This resource provides general information, not personal advice. Every situation is different. The actions suggested here may not be safe in your specific circumstances — particularly if the person causing harm could notice changes to your devices or accounts. Always consider your physical safety first.

If you need personalised support, contact 1800RESPECT (1800 737 732) or your local specialist domestic violence service. If you are in immediate danger, call 000.

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