Apps designed to keep children safe — like Google Family Link or Screen Time — can also be used to monitor and control an adult partner's phone usage, location, and communications.
App limits, content filters, or screen time restrictions that you didn't configure — someone with admin access set these up.
On Android: Settings > Security > Device Admin. On iPhone: Settings > Screen Time. If someone else's account controls yours, that's not normal.
Important: This resource provides general information, not personal advice. Every situation is different. The actions suggested here may not be safe in your specific circumstances — particularly if the person causing harm could notice changes to your devices or accounts. Always consider your physical safety first.
If you need personalised support, contact 1800RESPECT (1800 737 732) or your local specialist domestic violence service. If you are in immediate danger, call 000.
This framework is under active development. View full limitations & methodology.